Dating a woman with kids
Social workers know that children in these situations are more likely to be abused by their mother’s lovers, so they’ll be more likely to believe you are a culprit.Even if you are ultimately cleared of false accusations, the mere accusation can ruin your life.This is written to protect men (and, somewhat, children).None of this is to say single mothers are bad people and certainly not to say all women do the things I listed.Some do, and men should protect themselves.*Women are “single mothers” for different reasons.
Even if you’re just dating her and don’t want to get married, if the father(s) of the child(ren) is/are in the picture, that is likely going to be even more of a hassle for you.
Unless she was widowed because her husband was killed through no fault of his own (as opposed to guys who committed suicide, or had unhealthy lives, or were involved in crime), she picked the wrong man and/or treated him like crap.